My dear friend Adam. I was so sorry to (only just) hear of the passing of Ute. She was like a second mother to me and played such a huge role in my younger life. May she rest in peace. Godspeed to you Adam and family going forwards. Sincere condolences and regards, Gary

When I met Ute I realized that I met a wonderful person. Even though I was Ute's caregiver, it made me feel part of her family. I am sincerely sorry for the loss of Ute, a wonderful and intelligent person. I had a sincere person. But I know that she died with the dignity she always had.

Thank you for contacting me with the sad news of Ute's death. I have happy memories of when she and Sylvia and I were all part of a good team at Craven Rd! They were both always so cheerful and helpful and were great "buddies"!I I do hope your happy memories will be a comfort to you .

I was sorry to hear of Ute's passing away. Ute had a very rich life, not always an easy life, but she mastered any hurdles and for many years she was part of our life.

In loving memory of Ute, who cheered everyone with her kindness, charm and lovely voice. She helped many elderly folks to go home after devastating strokes and illnesses, always remembered.

Remembering many happy days over the years spent with Ute and our many German friends in Reading.

Ute was a huge part of my childhood and I remember her with great love.

Very happy memories. Walks in the park, lunches out, visits to country houses, games of Scrabble (don't remember winning many games!). A lot of the time Ute suffered considerable pain. All the time she helped and cared for others.

I met Ute as a fellow-member of Reading U3A. Ute was always friendly and supportive, and continually cheerful. I will always have fond memories of her.

Lovely lady to know, always had a laugh with Ute while helping her out around the house with cleaning and odd jobs.

I remember a holiday in Spain with Melanie and Ute in the summer of 1981. Melanie and I were out a lot going to local bars and enjoying the sun - of course! I still have the picture you gave me Melanie, of you, your mum and me sitting outside El Capistrano Village in Nerja. Happy sunny times!

I first met Ute in the nineteen eighties, we were both working for the NHS, in the Child Health Department, and got to know each other through the immunisation sessions in schools. She was always very organised, which was a very good thing, as I wasn't! We became friends and enjoyed celebrating, especially with her great friend Sylvia, who, I remember insisted on painting the rainbow rail on the wall by the front door, now a lovely reminder of her, and their great friendship. Ute's love for people and her hospitality were boundless, how she managed to keep such a welcoming home, full of precious memories of her life and family, amazes me, when I think of all the time she spent on the phone, and visiting people. I shall miss her, and our lovely chats, and playing Rummikub for hours!!! Ute was very blessed with her loving and caring family, who I know meant the world to her. My love goes with you, Ute. Penny ...and Daisy.

To Ute's Family All of us, the undersigned German friends, are sending our sincere condolences on the passing away of your dear mother, grand-mother and great grand-mother. Although Ute had several health issues in recent years, her death was rather unexpected. We got to know Ute through our friend Inge about 24 years ago and had many happy lunch and "Kaffee und Kuchen" meetings. Ute had encountered many emotional and physical difficulties in her life, but she always retained her optimistic attitude. We all admired her tenacity to carry on, even when her mobility caused problems and she continued in her "mind over matter" mode. We shall all miss our loyal friend. Else, Hannelore and Erika

Ute was our neighbour, about 10 houses down the road. We only met her this past year, and never met her in person; but we corresponded regularly via the phone and letters/cards since lockdown began. She seemed just such a lovely lady - very thoughtful and kind. My children and I will miss making pictures and baking for her. We will always remember her from her colourful handrail outside her house - it always made her house seem such a such happy place and gave an insight into the lovely person inside.

I first met Ute in the summer of 1962. I, together with my friend Esmail, stayed at her house, as perhaps the first lodgers. During our three months' stay we were treated as part of the family. During my stay in England for seven years I was a lodger at several places but the only person that I stayed in touch with was Ute. She was extremely kind and hospitable. I last talked to her about two weeks before Christmas and we had excellent discussions for about half an hour. I used to call her about once a month and each call was memorable. I will miss her and my heartfelt condolences to the family. Habib Dhlla, Vancouver, Canada

Forever grateful for Ute’s kindness. Maikku Aalto from Finland

Hi, I'm Lili, I've met Ute last year in February, I've entered in her house as her carer, and left as a friend of her five months later . Thank you Ute for all the memories I have with you. I will miss you so much 😇😇

I met Ute maybe 5 years ago, she contacted me for my taxi services and for those 5 years or so I gained a lovely friend as well as a customer, always super punctual and so friendly. I will miss Ute very much. Rip Ute x

I first met Ute in 2003 when she came to the beauty salon I was working at. She had booked a manicure and we immediately hit it off. I then became a mobile beauty therapist and our friendship bloomed. I used to take Ute to the airport and collect her from her many holiday’s. We had long discussions when I popped in to tint her eyebrows and give her makeup lessons. Her half hour appointments sometimes became four hours while we chatted away in the afternoons. My last phone call to Ute was on Tuesday 22nd December 2020. She was in good spirits. I’m going to miss my friend so much. Ute was one of the kindest people I’ve ever met. She was a strong character and knew exactly what she wanted. Rest well Ute you’ve left your strength and positivity with me forever.

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